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    <lastmod>2024-10-26</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Guide To Getting It On: The Universe's Coolest and Most Informative Book About Sex by Paul Joannides</image:title>
      <image:caption>Guide To Getting It On: The Universe's Coolest and Most Informative Book About Sex</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin, Ph.D</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book is so rich in content and understanding of sexuality. Reading it once was not enough. Jack Morin has gathered data on people’s peak sexual experiences, and uses that to explore the psyche of sexuality and attraction. He emphasizes the paradoxical nature of attraction and how small amounts of anxiety or insecurity can actually be an emotional aphrodisiac. Through reading this, you’ll also learn about your own Core Erotic Themes, and what they can tell you about your psyche. This book was pretty dense but still so much fun to read.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Ester Perel</image:title>
      <image:caption>I gave this book to my partner early in our relationship once it seemed like our relationship was getting more serious. I did this in hopes that our monogamous relationship would still be sexy even as we stayed together for years. And that’s exactly what this book is about: reconciling committed partnership with erotic passion. Perel describes how desire and love operate on different trajectories, however she describes how they can coexist.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Magnificent Sex: Lessons From Extraordinary Lovers By Peggy Kleinplatz, Ph.D. and A. Ménard, Ph.D.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers by Peggy Kleinplatz. Ph.D. and Dana Menard, Ph.D.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Sex Life By Vanessa Marin, LMFT, with Xander Marin</image:title>
      <image:caption>Wherever you are in your journey to create a juicy relationship with your partner, this book can guide you to have a stronger sexual connection. Very practical and with lots of exercises and conversations starters!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin J Lehmiller, Ph.D</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book is a collection of discoveries from Lehmiller's mix-methods research on what Americans desire. He normalized fantasies (group sex &amp; BDSM are actually quite normal fantasies!) and connected various personality traits to the likelihood of various fantasies. He also offers a roadmap for how to talk about fantasy. It's juicy and scientific and excellent at normalizing one’s sexual fantasies.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book is a must-read for all vulva-owners. It is a helpful guide for understanding the science behind female sexuality, diving into anatomy, body image, the stress cycle, and arousal. My biggest takeaway was about stress, and how to dispel stress the way that it actually moves through and leaves the body. Revolutionary. An essential read.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book was hugely powerful in understanding trauma and the long-term impact on the body and psyche. This book changed the way I view the world and myself. It also ignited a passion and desire to help people struggling with trauma. Bessel van der Kolk studies the impact of trauma on the brain and body, and looks at how it impacts people’s capacity for pleasure, trust, and self-control. He also spends about a third of the book looking at different treatments for trauma including meditation, yoga, theater, EMDR, and sports. It highlights the immense human capacity to harm and to heal.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert by John Gottman, Ph.D, and Nan Silver</image:title>
      <image:caption>The little book continues to inform the way I think about committed relationships. Instead of studying what goes wrong in relationships, the author, John Gottman, studies what goes right in relationships. With seven easy principles including relationship repair, building fondness and admiration, and nurturing the foundation of a long term partnership. This book feels out-dated in the way it talks about gender roles and marriage, but it’s truly valuable for anyone of any gender thinking about what it takes to be in long term partnership.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book has shifted the way I practice communication not only in my romantic relationship, but in many settings. This book provides concrete tools for how to shift communication towards clear, concise, authentic, and connective communication. I recommend this to my clients often.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley Glass</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is a thorough guide to how and why infidelity happens in relationships and guide on how to rebuild trust and recover from them within couples. An invaluable guide for anyone effected by infidelity.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Ester Perel</image:title>
      <image:caption>State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Ester Perel I listened to this on audiobook, and loved listening to Ester Perel’s voice. She has so much wisdom and professional experience on why cheating occurs, why it’s hurtful, how to heal from it, and how to prevent it. She also looks at infidelity across cultures and the cultural differences on the importance of honesty, which I found interesting.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Becky’s Reading Resources - Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book was most valuable to me because it showed models for how to practice consensual non-monogamy in a variety of different forms: from solo polyamory to partnered nonmonogamy to polyfidelity to swinging. It also touches on important topics such as navigating boundaries, dealing with jealousy, and juggling schedules. I read this book in 2015 when I was first starting to practice ethical nonmonogamy and I found it very helpful, especially when first starting out.</image:caption>
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